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Jen Funk Coaching
 

Welcome to Relating - A weekly note from me to you with thoughts, tools, and encouragement for building connected, lasting relationships.

 

Why Small Celebrations Build Big Connection

This past week has been exciting for me! I was interviewed on the Life Coaching Secrets Podcast, and I’m getting ready to launch my very own podcast, Relating with Jen Funk: Getting Honest About the Relationships that Matter Most!

And through it all, my husband, KC, has been my biggest supporter. He’s celebrated with me, asked about my progress, offered to brainstorm ideas and shared the podcast episode with people I don’t even know! 😂

His support reminds me how powerful it is to have someone in your corner cheering you on… and how easy it is to overlook this simple act in our closest relationships.

Because when something matters to the people we love, it’s worth celebrating… even if it wouldn’t matter to us.

Maybe your partner hits a milestone at work that you don’t fully understand.
Or your child is excited about something that seems small to you.
Or your best friend shares a win you might not have even noticed.

In these moments, we have a choice:

To ignore it or brush past it with a quick “Congrats”, OR actually pause and take a minute to celebrate.

As I have grown my coaching business, taken on new clients, published newsletters and now the upcoming podcast, there has been no greater feeling than hearing from friends and family who have taken a minute to share that they are proud of me, or that they loved my newsletter, or they are excited to listen to my podcast.

With every spoken word, text or email I have received, my connection to that person has deepened. Because they aren’t just communicating that they liked my newsletter… they are communicating that they care.

So I am going to encourage you to do that also… PAUSE to CELEBRATE the wins of those you love. Even a few simple words like “I’m so proud of you!” or “I can tell this means a lot to you” can deepen connection in powerful ways. Support doesn’t have to be grand gestures. It’s simply about paying attention and acknowledging what matters to the other person.

This week, try this:

➡️ Ask one follow-up question when someone you love shares a win: “What does this mean to you?” or “What could this change for you?”

➡️ Celebrate in their love language. Write a note, plan a little toast at dinner, give them a hug, or simply tell them how proud you are.

➡️ Notice even the “small” things. Sometimes it’s the everyday victories - getting through a stressful day (without killing anyone!) or a project finished on time - that mean the most when someone sees them.

These little moments send a big message:

“What matters to you matters to me, because you matter to me.”

That’s how trust grows. That’s how relationships deepen.

And speaking of celebrating…

I’m excited to share two fun pieces of news! 🎉

1️⃣ I was a guest on the Life Coaching Secrets Podcast! You can listen to the episode by clicking this link: Jen Funk - Life Coaching Secrets

2️⃣ My own podcast, Relating with Jen Funk, is launching soon! Each month, you can expect:

  • Weekly episodes on important relationship topics

  • A special guest conversation

  • An “Ask Jen” episode where I answer YOUR relationship questions

If you’d like my take on something happening in your marriage, long-term relationship, or another relationship in your life, hit reply and send me your question. Your topic might be featured in an upcoming episode!

Here’s to noticing, cheering, and celebrating the wins of the people we love… because those small moments create relationships that last.

With love and belief in you,

P.S. If you are enjoying my newsletters, and know someone else who may benefit, please share! Just send them to my website to sign up at www.jenfunkcoaching.com. Also available on the website - my FREE ebook to download called “The 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship TODAY!”

Jen Funk, CPC
Certified Professional Life & Relationship Coach
Helping women create deeply connected, fulfilling relationships.
www.jenfunkcoaching.com

 
 
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